how to love??

eww :p
let me ask u this one personal question...

ok, maybe before i'll be posting about this, let me make it clear...it has nothing to do with personal life or picking up on others...it is just my two cents on sharing it with the world..ehe..as if like my blog is being read by the world anyways :p

back to the point...
what do u know about love??i've been asking this thing quite a while...have u ever up to lovelife??do u really care to be loved by someone??do u really need love to cherish your life everyday??as for me yes!!u needed that...even God created Adam and Hawa in pairs so that they can love each other...so love does really exist in this world...it is just the way how we want to show the love, to appreciate love and find love...

but mind you again, love can be wonderful yet very painful when it strikes!!therefore, love is a strange thing. it is the most amazing feeling in the world that u can never describe it by words...sometimes it hurts, yeahh it's true, but this is the feeling that everyone will ended up facing it whether they like it or not...so never feel that u've been leftout by love, becoz there are many ways to define love and many ways to actually love that one person!!

and so, whenever u get the chance to love, love with all your heart, but remember, u must beware of what's happening around you!!don't let anything slip by, and always alert...some guys find it potential to play around, but as a girl, u won't let him to be the womanizer :p

when u came across a relationship, never start without saying it...yeahh, sometimes most woman prefer to just let it on without the guys defining it clearer...maybe they find it stupid to do so, but heyy!!when u say the words "i love you" make sure u carry it in your heart...and does the opposite partner feels it too??and does he willing to do anything for u and treat u as someone so0oo special to him??becoz come one day, he might just leave u alone and denies that he ever said that he loves you!!hahh...now who's to blame??

to start a relationship maybe easy, but to maintain it is the hardest part..and to walk in your own shoes without even bother about others shoes is yet anothing one thing...rather than u try to attempt to control them or impose your own expectation, try to understand him/her...

love that one person truly madly deeply and yes, be concious too lahh :p and expect nothing in returns, but heyy again, that doesn't mean you should allow your partner mistreat or undervalue you!!giving love doesn't mean you are guaranteed receiving love...but try loving for the sake of love, realize that someone has their own way to show or respond love, so do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way...

and last but not least, becoz i think, i'm running out of ideas, and i can't think of anything else...my mind is stopping myself from thinking!!goshhh...

try to imagine what happen if u lose that one person...does it effects your life onwards??then only u'll have a better appreciation towards the one u love/have...just think how lucky u are to have the one u love around u!!!muaxxxxxxxxxxx...xoxo...

p/s : call your loved ones with romantic names...find your own so that it feels special!!ermmm...something like gorgeous, superman (i think it's cute :p), sunshine, and etc!!